The approach to a kiss is at least one-third of the experience. The approach sets the tone for the kiss. If you sense the need to reassure, gently touching the other person on the hand, cheek, or neck first is tender and affectionate. If you are a man kissing a woman who is shy or insecure, gently rub your cheek against hers for several seconds. This is reassuring and also demonstrates that you will take time to be tender. There is no law against asking if you may kiss someone. Many men like to make the first move, but some men are relieved when a woman has the courage to initiate. Always start gentle.
1. Make that gentle approach.
2. Tilt your head slightly to one side, part your lips and gently press your lips against the other person's lips.
3. Kiss gently until the kiss is returned with some degree of passion. Then slowly touch the tongue and/or lips with your tongue.  Always be sensitive, never forceful.

     If the person you are kissing seems reluctant, save that first kiss for a later encounter. Some women, by principle, do not kiss on the first date. This does not necessarily mean you are being rejected. Kissing is powerful and life-
changing. This is why many women do not immediately kiss a man to whom they are attracted. She may want very much to kiss you, but knows that kissing will put her at the point of no return. She may want to get to know you better before she gets in that deep.

     When your lips meet the lips or skin of another person, electrical energy, the carrier of your emotions, is conveyed to the lips, skin, and heart of your loved one. The timing, quality, and duration of the kiss all speak volumes about how you feel about that person. Kissing can be one of the most arousing and erotic events in a relationship. The timing and intensity of a kiss or kissing plays an undeniable part in the establishment of a deeply satisfying relationship.

     Kissing the hand of your love interest is very romantic. This should be done before a kiss on the lips if your intent is simply to express adoration. A kiss on the hand following a kiss on the lips implies the desire for intimacy. It is also very romantic to kiss the hair of your lover directly over the ear.

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