There are wonderful elements of romance that you can incorporate into your lifestyle, one-at-a-time, if that suits you. Many of these are elements that can be used in areas of your life other than an intimate relationship. For instance, the way you decorate your home can serve to create a general romantic atmosphere or to create pleasure for intimacy or both.
     You might be thinking to yourself right now that creating a romantic lifestyle will take more money than you have. Actually, it is possible to create romance without a lot of money. Instead of hiring a professional image consultant, you can ask for candid opinions from people who love you and would respond in a kind and helpful manner. You might create a small flower garden and bring some of the flowers into your home. You can replace the 60-watt lightbulbs in your lamp or lamps with 40-watt bulbs or pink bulbs. RomanticFlair's Romance Advice Topics and Books on the Art of Romance are full of practical ideas for raising the level of romance in your life. The links below will also be helpful.