Men

griping about the cost of things
get help

irresponsible spending, especially with a credit card
get help

roaming eyes

inattentiveness

lack of planning for the date

poor communication skills

jealousy
There are physical conditions which can predispose you to this.
You may need to talk with a geneticist and a therapist.

poor grooming
get help

bad breath

unattractive appearance
get help

undesirable habits

pornography
(It can become an addiction)
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dirty, cluttered car
(Our recommendation: Hire a neighborhood lad
to clean your car for $5 - $10)

vulgar language and/or behavior

late pickup

poor kissing style
get help

poor attitude toward romance
get help

general poor or negative attitude toward women

money problems
get help

consistently negative take on things

self-absorbed personality

poor character

dodging legitimate questions

lack of patience
(Did you know patience in men is an aphrodisiac?)

unsafe driving
(Women are security conscious.)

alcohol/drug abuse

explicit talk about previous lovers

insensitive behavior toward date's child(ren)
(Never ignore or show indifference toward your date's child[ren].
If a woman knows what she's doing,
she will reject you instantly, and rightly so.)

desperate manner
(the "any-decent-wench-will-do-in-a-pinch" attitude--
make her feel special, or forget it!)

laziness
(Find out what the root problem of your laziness is.
The cheapest way to do this is to engage in some honest self-analysis.
You might also read a book on the subject from the library
to give you some points of reference for self-analysis.
There are some medical reasons why a person
might be or seem lazy (for instance, a neurodevelopmental dysfunction).
Your laziness will become a bone of contention
or an unspoken grievance in a relationship.
Make your best effort to fix it.)

poor table manners
get help

anger and/or intimidation

stress
(While no one can completely eliminate stress,
it can be dealt with so that it doesn't destroy relationships)

unpredictable mental or emotional state

cheating

superiority complex

public embarrassment and/or humiliation



Women

unattractive appearance
get help

lack of interest in your man's world

unappreciative attitude
(Never take a man for granted. Many men feel unappreciated.
Think what could be possible by showing him your appreciation!)

childish behavior

general poor or negative attitude toward men

clinginess

critical attitude

nagging

gossiping

poor table manners
get help

lack of outside interests
(such as hobbies, informed opinions on social and political topics, developed talents)

"golddigger" mentality

poor health

laziness
(Find out what the root problem of your laziness is.
The cheapest way to do this is to engage in some honest self-analysis.
You might also read a book on the subject from the library
to give you some points of reference for self-analysis.
There are some medical reasons why a person
might be or seem lazy (for instance, a neurodevelopmental dysfunction).
Your laziness will become a bone of contention
or an unspoken grievance in a relationship.
Make your best effort to fix it.)

demanding attitude

disrespect

embarrassing public behavior

stress
(While no one can completely eliminate stress,
it can be dealt with so that it doesn't destroy relationships)

bitchiness

unpredictable mental or emotional state

cheating

contentious mindset

money problems
get help

"wedding cake attitude"
(the "now that we've cut the wedding cake, i.e. I've got him,
I'll only engage in sex with him when I feel like it,
i.e. not very often" attitude)
get help